What "Marriage" is for you?

These days I have noticed very hot discussion either in my office, in my friends  and in my family that why don't you get married. So, I have just started polling by using different mediums to inquire the experiences of those who got married and who were or are in relationship. Also tweeted and posted it on my Facebook wall to do the same. 


24 responses I got which I am just going to quote. Few of them were really funny along with depression and also opened up their relationship that what exactly they are moving on with.

1. Depression and A compromise
2. Marriage I think is just a social recognition of a couple, nothing else. Whether they are in love or not, it's a commitment that they are husband and wife.
3. WHAT?
4. To get a refine carved form of a gold we need to pass it through too much heat and after marriage whole life will be in that process.
5. The husband who wants a happy marriage should learn to keep his mouth shut and his checkbook open.
6. It's just a religious way to keep you far from sins.
7. It's something important to continue your generation
8. It's a natural phenomenon which everyone needs to follow.
9. If your husband and his family are good then married life can be heaven but, otherwise it's just a series of one-sided compromises.
10. Marriage is a religious and social bond b/w a man and a woman
11. It's just a indulgence of two families.
12. It's compromise.
13. It's something we just do to fullfil our lust.
14. It's only for those who don't have girl friends in their lives.
15. Name of sharing; sorrows, happiness, love, money and bed.
16. Wastage of money. 
17. Liability
18. Marriage is a pure relation to complete your family.
19. Marriage is a long term plan to get support in the age of retirement.
20. Marriage is a contract in between a money making and love making machine.
21. It's a complex name of easy process.
22. If you are happy and jealous of your own happiness then you go for it.
23. It's good in initial stages then seems like the biggest blunder of life.
24. It was healthy initially but things were not the same after few months.

Well from the above result set I just came to a point that 67% were completely depressed or fed up of their wedding lives. So, why do I need to go for it as I have the similar concept because in my opinion marriages should be done without compromises with mutual understanding of both. But, whenever I just see this thing then I enforce myself to think back again. My mostly friends are married or in relationship but, they still have doubts on their partner that they must be cheating on others. It's only because no one know their partner completely because if you know some from the beginning and aware of their past and present. Then it's the best guy or gal for you to get married.

As one of my friend used to say it's better to get married to a known bastard then an unknown bastard.

Commitments Disrespecting

I was just roaming around and was thinking about so many people in my life and what they often pissed off with? Well, it is the commitments disrespecting, and it's really very common in human nature regardless of the nationality and religion. I have seen so many peoples those who talk a lot about commitments, here I am not talking about everyone but mostly people. Secondly, I am not taking any name else people will start finding religion in that.
What exactly commitment disrespecting, so I analyzed and figured out few things:

1. Break the commitment directly.
2. Enforce someone to break a commitment.
3. Make a commitment then prioritize other commitments over that, it's different from first one which will be seen later.

Break the commitment directly:

Well mostly people find their own words so meaningless, as they don't bother to fulfill their own sayings and considered it as the least important thing. Commitment is not a matter of going somewhere or skipping a single party, but, it has so many ripple effects on the perception of others about the one who breaks commitment. Secondly, when someone invites you then he always manage his time too, and hold so many feeling in their heart which most of us break with a simple lame excuse or any other reason which seems important in front of them, but in front of me it can't be more important then a feelings of a human.

Normally we consider that disrespecting a commitment is something like skipping an event, but disrespecting a commitment also cater the group of those people, who thinks that their presence is necessary where time is not a constraint.

Enforce someone to break a commitments:

These days we have a very common problem that we all are getting selfish, and we don't bother to consider the problems of others. Some good friends often ask me to join their gathering and ask the other event to alter their plan, though they are aware of the fact that I have committed before. But, in my opinion everyone should consider themselves at the position of both the person and then try to ask me or anyone else to alter my plans because of theirs. 

Make a commitment then prioritize other commitments over that:

This is the most funny scenario which I always see and hear, in this case everyone is ok with a plan at first place. But, after sometime they got another invitation which they found better, what exactly they need to do in this case? I know mostly people thought the way I thought but their thoughts are quite contradicting with ours. As, they simply skip the plan and few don't bother to inform, few simply bother to inform at an eleventh hour and few just request you to move your plans as they stuck into other commitments. What about the emotions and time of others but, they think that this is the best way to excuse from an event and no one got hurt because of their that deed. 

So, I think people should follow he proper timings, stop being selfish, and stop being hypocrites which they really don't like for themselves and want someone to do with others.

First Formula 1 Car

I have seen so many students in my life as I also do some voluntarily advisory service for IT students.  Not, only this but have also tried to promote the work of those students, where I think the work in not extraordinary but, they have the skill-set to do something beyond the thoughts.

Well, Pakistan is considered to be the country lives under the threats of terrorist and the people here always talk about the stuff which is not healthy for anyone including themselves. But, if this tail can be considered true then why different countries on the globe, hire the people from Pakistan and India. As everyone is aware that the people here are talented but unfortunately due to project funding issues and the growing country problems people have started migrating to different lands where they can find peace. As the first statement was not a rumor and it's a bitter reality but along with that the people are talented and always try to do something innovated which can't be expected from the country.

It's a true talent I think, as in Israel students get isolated from the problematic world and they get more productive but, what's about those talented fellows who works under pressure with all the constraint exists in this country i.e. Electricity, Gas, Strikes and other hurdles which halts the city operations.

I know there are so many breathing at this land who are doing some work with very low resources. But, here I am mentioning only few whom I met. Aman Ahmed, a person who has been trying to work on green energy for past few months and finally being able to produce 110W of electricity and still facing problems but I know that he will be able to achieve that as his target is 500W at least. So, that he can use that electricity to charge the batteries of UPS which will obviously reduce the consumption of ESC (Electrical Supply Company) units.

But, as I have mentioned this article is to promote the first formula one car which will be painted in green and white, obviously the flag color of Pakistan. Whenever we just think about formula one racing ,we always come up with the following brands Ferrari, Honda, McLaren Mercedes and Renault and so many $ symbols in our mind. As everyone, who has even least interest in cars can be aware of the prices of these expensive cars . But, the time is not so far when Pakistan will be enqueued in these brands, with a cost effective model of Formula One car. As the student of NED are also working on creating a first Formula 1 car. I think if we will not be able to promote the talent then obviously like other talented fellows of this region, this talent will migrate to other countries. And once again we will loose what we have.

These are the students of NED, creating a Forumla 1 car as their FYP (Final Year Project) and these students are the group of person who always take the difficult jobs as fun.

It’s kind of fun to do the impossible. – Walt Disney

I think if we can't just directly help their project by giving a complete sponsor then at least can pray for them and also promote them as much as possible. These guys can easily be followed on facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/FormulaPakistan

And if anyone can help them then can talk to them directly either. I have just noticed that these guys are progressing well and hopefully first Formula 1 of Pakistan will be on roads soon.