What "Marriage" is for you?

These days I have noticed very hot discussion either in my office, in my friends  and in my family that why don't you get married. So, I have just started polling by using different mediums to inquire the experiences of those who got married and who were or are in relationship. Also tweeted and posted it on my Facebook wall to do the same. 


24 responses I got which I am just going to quote. Few of them were really funny along with depression and also opened up their relationship that what exactly they are moving on with.

1. Depression and A compromise
2. Marriage I think is just a social recognition of a couple, nothing else. Whether they are in love or not, it's a commitment that they are husband and wife.
3. WHAT?
4. To get a refine carved form of a gold we need to pass it through too much heat and after marriage whole life will be in that process.
5. The husband who wants a happy marriage should learn to keep his mouth shut and his checkbook open.
6. It's just a religious way to keep you far from sins.
7. It's something important to continue your generation
8. It's a natural phenomenon which everyone needs to follow.
9. If your husband and his family are good then married life can be heaven but, otherwise it's just a series of one-sided compromises.
10. Marriage is a religious and social bond b/w a man and a woman
11. It's just a indulgence of two families.
12. It's compromise.
13. It's something we just do to fullfil our lust.
14. It's only for those who don't have girl friends in their lives.
15. Name of sharing; sorrows, happiness, love, money and bed.
16. Wastage of money. 
17. Liability
18. Marriage is a pure relation to complete your family.
19. Marriage is a long term plan to get support in the age of retirement.
20. Marriage is a contract in between a money making and love making machine.
21. It's a complex name of easy process.
22. If you are happy and jealous of your own happiness then you go for it.
23. It's good in initial stages then seems like the biggest blunder of life.
24. It was healthy initially but things were not the same after few months.

Well from the above result set I just came to a point that 67% were completely depressed or fed up of their wedding lives. So, why do I need to go for it as I have the similar concept because in my opinion marriages should be done without compromises with mutual understanding of both. But, whenever I just see this thing then I enforce myself to think back again. My mostly friends are married or in relationship but, they still have doubts on their partner that they must be cheating on others. It's only because no one know their partner completely because if you know some from the beginning and aware of their past and present. Then it's the best guy or gal for you to get married.

As one of my friend used to say it's better to get married to a known bastard then an unknown bastard.